I’ll let you in on a little secret.
I secretly love the trolls, they feed me more than they know; bringing all their negative comments and outlooks, and everything cool. They are actually why I’m going to be SUCCESSFUL as FUCK.
Whenever someone “calls me out” for the life I’m living, discussing my faults, laughing at my dreams or just saying something “mean.” I take it, flip it and continue living my damn life. The only time it hurts is when they are saying something I’ve already told myself in times when my mind decides it’s a good time to bring up all my fears, faults and mistakes.
Trolls used to kill me, they’d say I’m a shitty mom, ugly, fat. These words I already spoke to myself but didn’t do shit about, I didn’t try harder, I did nothing, only felt sorry for myself. But when someone else called me out? They slapped me into shape, physically and mentally. Trolls made me start my journey, made me look in the mirror and ask if I’m happy with what I’ve created. Trolls helped me realize it’s not how they see me, it’s how I see me. Because of trolls I will teach my daughter how to love herself, no matter anyone’s opinions of who she is or how she is living. As a society we need to stop trying to tell people how to treat and accept our children, and instead teach our children how to love themselves, whether people accept or agree with them doesn’t dictate their worth. We also need to understand that trolls and “bullies,” are only trying to find an outlet for their pain, they don’t know how else to do it. Misery loves company. Them trolling you, has nothing to do with you, only them. You let them deal with the negative words, vibes and shit they put into the universe, & you keep doing you.
But shhhh... this secret stays between us, I don’t want trolls to know I secretly love them, because then they’ll stop.... and I need them 👽 #rebranding #rachaaelbrand #arizona #welcometomyworld #mystory #advice #slayyourself #thankyou #slimthick #magentahair #burgandyrose #bipolaroid