It took me a long time to figure this one out... To be honest, I'm still working on it. I grew up as child #6
of 7 as the pacemaker, and many times that meant having to compromise anything I wanted for peace. As I continued to get older, I kind of went through my days always serving, and not even asking myself what I wanted.
It actually became a struggle in our marriage, because I never had an opinion about much, and my husband would get frustrated having to do all the thinking and planning for our family, because my answers were always, "I don't care", "sure, whatever you want to do". "I don't know, I never thought about it". "Either, is fine with me."
It wasn't until I learned that it was okay to think for myself, about myself, learn my likes and dislikes etc... That brought a peace and balance to our lives and relationship.
I'm so grateful my husband insists, encourages, and supports me finding and being who I am. One who supports our family, so that I can stay home from an office, and raise our children. I am sooo blessed that he encouraged me to try Rodan+Fields products, because I never would have allowed myself that blessing. I'm so grateful he encouraged me to start my business with Rodan+Fields, just because I felt that I was supposed to...
I am a better me when I know who I am, and that allows me to share and serve in a better way as I always desired in the first place.
So I encourage you, as my husband did me... Find who you are, and take care of yourself, so that you, in return, can take care of others. 💝
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