#whatothersthinkofyouisnoneofyourbusiness

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I bought this dress six years ago. It still had the tags on it last night when I pulled it out to wear on our wintry date night. I’m proud as hell that it still fits after two kids and six years, but honestly...it took me about four attempts to post this picture. It felt weird to talk about being proud of my body without apologizing for the vanity of such a post. I brag on my wonderful husband, my beautiful children, our beautiful home and my incredible life, but for some reason it felt weird to show this picture and celebrate the love and attention I give my health and my fitness. So IMMA TAKE 5 seconds and hit share and not apologize for being proud. Here’s to not second guessing your right to JUST be proud.
We all know how hard it is to let go of what other's think of us. ✨⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Recently an electric s'mores maker showed up at my door.**An electric s'mores maker** that I did not order. Who even knew they existed? Not a delivery box. The actual box of the s'mores maker, unopened, with said s'mores maker inside.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ✨⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ It's presence is a true mystery. Where did it come from? Why is it at my door? Did it fall off a UPS truck? A sign of some sort? And stranger yet, I still haven't located the owners weeks later.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ✨⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ When I first "found" it, I wanted to rip it open and fire it up right there and then. I thought how fun my son would think it is to roast marshmallows right on our countertop. But something inside me said, "this does not belong to me."⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ✨⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ And then I knew the s'mores maker *was* a sign---my reminder to let that sh$t go: what other people think of me is *none* of my business. One of my favorite mottos: THIS DOES NOT BELONG TO ME. ✨⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ This motto has helped me find the freedom to just be me, allowed me to release the weight of imagined judgment and expectations, to own my imperfection, and to lean into action and vulnerability.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ✨⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ So the s'mores maker sits, unopened, in my office. Thank you so much to whomever or whatever brought that beautiful reminder to my front door. ✨⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ What other people think of you? It does not belong to you. This s'mores maker, on the other hand??? ✨⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ✨⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ✨⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ P.S. The s'mores maker also reminded me how much I love marshmallows. 😂💗⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ *⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ *⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ *⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ #thisdoesnotbelongtome #letitgo #whatothersthinkofyouisnoneofyourbusiness #smores #smoresmaker #isawthesign #universehasyourback #theuniversehasyourback #inspiration #inspo #getinspired #findinspiration #findinspirationineverything #inspirationeveryday #inspirationeverywhere #youarebecoming #keeplearning #keepgrowing #personalgrowthtips #growbetter #getbetter #happiness #happy #happyallday #happyallthetime #happyandfree #happyandfreetobeme #happier #findhappiness #findhappinesswithin
Today celebrate your journey. Don't let others competing for the attention move you from your path. Focus on your own spiritual progress. #whatothersthinkofyouisnoneofyourbusiness #sunnyday #mindyourown #growyourown #9ofpentacles #nineofpentacles #5ofwands #fiveofwands #aceofwands #wildunknowntarot
Easier said than done sometimes. Still a good reminder to stop and consider that what you're telling yourself in you're head is unlikely to be accurate. #giveyourselfabreak #dontbelieveeverythingyouthink #anxiety #mentalhealth #easiersaidthandone #goodreminder #stop #think #consider #accurate #whatothersthinkofyouisnoneofyourbusiness
This is the day I light that bridge on fire! I am stronger than I have ever been and I am ready to shake of the heavy weight of others opinions. I will not wait to be "forgiven" by those that deem me unworthy or less than them. I will protect those that I love and fiercely love them. Don't like me, get to stepping, because those who love me are the people that matter. #burnthatbridge #whatothersthinkofyouisnoneofyourbusiness #keepmycirclesmall
Stop worrying about what others think of you! #whatothersthinkofyouisnoneofyourbusiness #carryon #livewithoutregrets Outfit courtesy of @colorvinesalonandboutique
I was walking through @barnesandnoble and saw this on the book stand... have no idea what it’s truly about but the title caught my eye... the courage to be disliked.... don’t we all strive for that..? Say what we feel (in a respectful way), own our feelings, go after our goals without the fear of “what will they think of me?” Most definitely not easy but none of us were promised an easy life.... . . . . . #courage #speakout #beyou #goals #stepoutofyourcomfortzone #whatothersthinkofyouisnoneofyourbusiness #bloggerstyle #bloggerlife #drmom #doctormon #bloggermom #somedocs #dailydeepthoughts #adoctormomandablog
One of my ultimate favourites from the #spiritjunkie app so far ❤ #goodmorning #newday #happysunday
I love how my magic make up makes me feel good, it gives me confidence, in my eyes it makes me look good.....and at the end of the days thays all that matters....your opinion of you 😍 #WhatOthersThinkOfYouIsNoneOfYourBusiness #ILoveMe #RachelHollis #NolasBeauties
My dad always said, “Don’t worry if others speak negatively about you. Just live your life in a way others won’t believe them.” 💫 And from the words of another wise man, Dr. Wayne Dyer, “What others think of me is none of my business”. I love that thought. ❤️ We can’t control what people think of us, so why worry about it? We’ve all made mistakes. The point is to learn and grow from them. If others want to judge you for your past, let them. You know if your heart who you are and the people who matter will love you for the real you anyways.
Life is overwhelming. In a great way & sometimes in a not so good way. We have good days, bad days, days that bring joy, and some days bring sadness. But you know what, it's ok. With a to-do list miles long & feeling like there aren't enough hours in the day, I think it's fair to say our lives our busier than ever. While my household was sleeping and I was up way too early thinking about all I had to do today, I saw this post. And for some reason I felt it was screenshot worthy. I wanted to share it to remind myself & who ever may need it that self care is important. Love yourself today & every day ❤ #selfcare #love #happinessbeginswithyou #whatothersthinkofyouisnoneofyourbusiness #liveyourbestlife
What other people think of us is their problem, not ours. We all go our way and only we know all the obstacles that we have already overcome. We cannot allow others to tell us who we are. The big challenge is to become non-judgmental ourselves because we don't know either what goes on in other people's lives! Have a great day my friends ❤️#nonjudgemental #whatothersthinkofyouisnoneofyourbusiness #yourlife #yourchoice #mentalprison #fear #bekind #findthegood #changeifyouwant #lifeisshort #todaywillnevercomeagain #mastercoach
#tbt to 1st, when my 5 year old decided that part of her Christmas #12daysofgiving she would #donate her hair to @wigsforkidsbc in honour of her Nana. Wigs for kids BC gives wigs to all children who are sick for FREE. There were other places to donate but she didn’t want someone to have to pay and she wanted the kids to look and feel more like themselves. Oh my heart ❤️ Fast forward 1.5 years later, my 6 1/2 year old then grew her hair again just to donate it. But this time she challenged societies perception of what a little girl “should look like”. She wanted a #mowhawk . When I asked her why she replied “if a boy can have long hair or where pink, I can have a mowhawk”. H-E-double 🏒 sticks you can! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 While she performed another selfless act, she showed me that her #selfesteem wasn’t attached to her looks and I couldn’t have been more proud. Not everyone felt the same, however, we heard comments from loved ones about her poor hair, schoolmates called her a boy, strangers assuming she is a boy or gender confused...but she didn’t flinch. SHE loved her hair(and still does). She told me she didn’t care what others thought and during her nightly #affirmations she told me not to worry “bc I’m an influencer and world changer”! 😭😭😭 The beauty that now shines through her from her feeling most comfortable and confident in her own skin is so bright it touches all those she encounters. . . . #selfless #kidsarepurelove #girlscanhaveshorthairtoo #wigsforkidsbc #proudmama #blessed #challengingperceptionsofbeauty #confidentgirlsrule #confidentgirl #whoruntheworldgirls #influencer #futureworldchangers #ifallgirlshadhalfherconfidence #whatothersthinkofyouisnoneofyourbusiness #winnipeg #wpg #204
Don’t let the opinions of others effect your inner peace!!! It really doesn’t have anything to do with you !!! #ownyourlife #personaldevelopment #learn #loveyourself #loveyourlife #whatothersthinkofyouisnoneofyourbusiness
Happy Friday! . This is so good! I’m still working on this one- probably always will be-and what about hormones and moods?! That’s been more of a challenge for me as I grow older! . What helps me to control my emotions is enough sleep, breathing, meditation, and yoga and taking my vitamins and minerals. . What about you? How do you master your emotional landscape? 💗💗💗 . . . . . . . . . . . . #selfcontrol #selfmastery #masteryourmind #masteryourthoughts #masteryouremotions #whatothersthinkofyouisnoneofyourbusiness #stayinyourlane #stayinyourmagic #controlofself #meditationforeverything #meditate #mindfulness #mindfulnesspractice #happyfriday #fridaythoughts #fridayvibes #staycalm #staycomposed #lifecoach #lifecoachforwomen #mentor #mentoring #womensmentorship #vaughanmentor #torontomentor #yorkregionmindfulness #loveyourself #gettingbettereveryday
Beautyful things happen when you distance yourself from negativity ❣️ #whatothersthinkofyouisnoneofyourbusiness
If you haven’t read this yet.....do it! Just finished it today. Loved it! @msrachelhollis #whatothersthinkofyouisnoneofyourbusiness
I FUCKING ROCK. (Please do not judge people by F-word it's telling that I'm an honest human and I own my feelings and expressions to say it freely.) . The only judgement I concern is the judgement by myself judging me. My behaviour about what I am doing and talking negatively to myself. . This one thing I do really really well is I don't give a meaning to what others think of me. I am 100% always myself no matter how people treat me bad or think bad it doesn't matter it doesn't change my behaviour how I treat people with a kindness respect treating them as a human being. . A poet said if you ever get the chance to treat them the way they treated you I hope you choose to walk away and do better. . This made me think. The reason to walk away. Is that really demonstrating doing better though? What is do better really mean? What made you tolerate if you've been treated poorly in the first place? . Setting a boundary is important when you notice if people treat you poorly don't need to revenge or tick for tack in life. . Respect yourself and respect the others. . Choose to be you, a good person. If you believe you're a good person. No matter how bad people treat you, you can still treat them with kindness love and respect them as a human being. . You are awesome. You are kind. You love people. Then just be you. Don't change yourself just because people treat you poorly. Be ultimate yourself. . Do not treat people by how bad they are but how good you are. I think Mother Teresa said this. . The truth is you will treat people with what is inside of you. It's an egocentric excuse that I will treat them badly too because that's how they treated me. It's coming from the Ego. Ego needs to get even 50:50 be fair mindset. That's why we have this kind of thinking. Tame your Ego and choose to be a better person. . . . #TameYourEgo #IFuckingRock #BeBetterPerson #BeKind #WhatOthersThinkOfYouIsNoneOfYourBusiness #ChooseKindness #ChooseLove #EgoNeedsToGetEven #BeTrueYourself #UltimateSelf #RespectHuman
Happy National Coming Out Day! Being born and raised in the deep South, I know what it is like to struggle with acceptance. I celebrate all who have had the courage, and I support all who are struggling. Dear young people: Surround yourself with those who love and support YOU and you will have a lifetime of laughter and freedom! And don’t let anyone tell you that just because you don’t live your life the way they think you should, that you can’t have everything you want... and more! xoxo 🏳️‍🌈 #nationalcomingoutday #whatothersthinkofyouisnoneofyourbusiness
“Don’t worry about what people are thinking about you, they’re thinking it anyway. Don’t worry about what they’re saying, they’re saying it anyway. Have the courage to step up, be the best version of yourself and give that gift to the world 🌎 “ - Les Brown . #nutmeglipsense #lipsense #senegence #lesbrownquotes #whatothersthinkofyouisnoneofyourbusiness
Favorite place for breakfast is @springcreektearoom. What’s the issue?. . . . Been going through some tough issues. It’s been hard lately to separate my work from my personal life. My past has carried some demons that makes life a little unbearable at times and sometimes I struggle to find that perfect balance.. . . . However, this girl right here has taken those demons and run with it. She’s been my rock and continues to be one of the most understanding people I’ve ever had the pleasure meeting and dating. I appreciate and adore you. @leannrenee.reynolds. . . . #1stphorm #iam1stphorm #girlfriend #adayinthelife #daybeforewomancrushwednesday #mpbolc #bolc #cuteposts #sorrynotsorry #sorrybaby #feltlikepostingsomething #pinkythepitbull #needtoadopt #springcreektearoom #thecakeisamazing #beautifulgirls #beautifulview #thatdress #thatdresstho #otherstories #imgonnagetjudgedforthis #nocaresgiven #whatothersthinkofyouisnoneofyourbusiness #zulofoxtrot #military #militaryguys #officer #onemorehashtagwhynot
“Run from what's comfortable. Forget safety. Live where you fear to live. Destroy your reputation. Be notorious.” #rumiquotes #comfortzone #growth #showupforyourself #change #judgement #nofilterneeded #whatothersthinkofyouisnoneofyourbusiness #embraceit #freedom #comfortisfatal
Absolutely! The people in our health & fitness groups & my fellow coaches inspire me every day; we’re there to support each other without competition. It’s refreshing to be surrounded by endless positivity. There’s still time to join our group which starts tomorrow! You have nothing to lose by checking it out - you may find that it’s exactly what you need ❤️
SELF LOVE and SELF ACCEPTANCE is the answer to it all. And it takes doing the work every single day. ❤️❤️ #Garyveeistheshit #selflove #loveyourself #respectandapproveofyourself #whatothersthinkofyouisnoneofyourbusiness #thefoundationofitall #love #love #love
True story. What other people think of you is non of your business.
What others think of you is none of your business but what you think of yourself is definitely important #whatyouthinkofyourselfismoreimportant #whatothersthinkofyouisnoneofyourbusiness #quotes #wisewords
My homework for this evening. What other people think of me is none of my business - expressly when it causes me to doubt myself and my ability. I’m not perfect - but I have talent, value and in the words of Stuart Smalley....”doggone it people like me!” 😆😆😆 #quietstrength #persistence #acceptwhatis #getthingsdone #standinyourpower #focus #confidence #standstrong #positivevibes #commitment #rootedinlove #lessons #growth #growthmindset #letitgo #love #whatothersthinkofyouisnoneofyourbusiness #surrender #peace #peaceofmind #brushitoff #tuneoutthenoise #stayontrack #knowyourworth #nowigetit #notetoself #selfawareness #alwayslearning #movingon #lightenup
This includes you! Be kind & gentle to yourself & others today & remember we are all doing the best we CAN with each moment! #lifeisbeautiful #yolo #bekindtoyourself #liveinthemoment #fouragreements #whatothersthinkofyouisnoneofyourbusiness
Personal boundaries are guidelines, rules or limits that a person creates to identify reasonable, safe and permissible ways for other people to behave towards them and how they will respond when someone passes those limits. . . . . #boundaries #motivationmonday #beleiveinyourself #ownyourlife #whatothersthinkofyouisnoneofyourbusiness #healthyrelationships #loveyourself #sayno #laydownthelaw #personalboundaries #live #loveyourselfmore
If you’ve been true to yourself. Been kind hearted. Been the first to say you’re sorry. Been the first to put in effort. Been loyal to those who deserve it. Been totally honest. Have peace within knowing that you’ve tried your best and that is all you can do. 🖤 #beunapologeticallyyou #donthalfassit #whatothersthinkofyouisnoneofyourbusiness #doyou #youareabadass #youareenough #realrecognizereal
It's Friday!! 🙌🏻🙌🏻 go and have a fabulous weekend and remember this.... #truestory #fact #truth #whatothersthinkofyouisnoneofyourbusiness #theholistictoolkit #happiness #friday #quotes #qotd #trainthoughts #ifitmakesyouhappy
I could not have said it better myself. Most people do not know what they want from their own lives how can they advise you on yours!?! #livingonpurpose #whatothersthinkofyouisnoneofyourbusiness
I don’t care about what others think about me, because... I don’t do this shit for anyone else. I don’t care what other people do. I just want to do what I love doing. I am only looking for a better version of me, the best for my family and give people who support me some motivation. #whatothersthinkofyouisnoneofyourbusiness
YES! Shine on, gorgeous one! ❤️ 😍
Sooo being in the car for freakin forever you just gotta have some fun #carkaraoke and yup feel free to make fun of me 😂 I’m deaf in my right ear so I can’t sing but I don’t care!! #gigimaven 💋
Boy did this one really hit me hard this past weekend! 🤦🏼‍♀️ It is one thing to dream big and another to actually take action towards achieving it. #workinprogress #oneactionatatime #justmove #detachingmyself #followingmyheart #iamlivingthedream #lettinggoofthatwhichnolongerservesme #whatothersthinkofyouisnoneofyourbusiness #bossmom #lifebydesign #idecide #iammyownauthor #thisismyjourney #allin #litafire
Alle vil ALTID have en mening om dig. Lige meget hvad du gør eller ikke gør. Alt efter hvad du siger eller ikke siger. Men en ting er sikkert, det er deres mening. Den skal ikke påvirke dig, så du begynder at ændre på dig. Vær tro mod dig selv, vær stolt af at du tør være dig selv. Så længe folk har en mening om dig, så ved du at du holder fast i din integritet, dine holdninger, din personlighed. #whatothersthinkofyouisnoneofyourbusiness #beyourself #youaregoodenough #beyou #værdigselv #tropådigselv #duergodnok #hvadandretænkererderesproblem #glæde #happiness #mig #me
What others think of you is NONE of your business! They are NOT a reflection of you...YOU are a reflection of YOU! Don't let others get inside your head rent free...#amandavivial #glamboss #visionista #glambossvisionista #noneofyourbusiness #noneofmybusiness #youmatter #modmagentalips #mysenelook
Knight of Staffs (Wands), 5 of Swords, Waxing Gibbous 55%. Reiki Intuitive Tarot Reading-- 9-17-18 Sooooo you've been busy working hard in pursuit of an idea or adventure? Discouraging prospects and anyone who has tried to reel you into projects have left you throwing your hands up, perhaps thinking about throwing in the towel. Knight of Staffs predicts hope and much light at the end of the tunnel. This card represents commitment, courage, energy, no fear, confidence and an increased ability to tackle challenges. A very strong Fire, perhaps Aries type energy surrounds this new onslaught of inspiration and opportunity. Please pay attention and make sure this is what you want as this can be an 'act first think later' type of adventure. 5 of Swords shows conflict, tension, self inflicted isolation, and also losing friends that aren't on the same page as you. It's okay to flake off the old and negative to make room for the positive and new energies. This is what you've asked for. You may even experience some backlash, betrayal, or a sneak attack from someone you've trusted in the last few months and it will become obvious that they've been working behind the scenes in attempt to sabotage you. Their own karma will backfire to show the world, perhaps even publicly on social media as they fail miserably and will appear unfaithful, jealous and unstable. Be extremely careful in whom you trust and confide in during this time of transition. It may be best to lay down your arms and walk away. You're second guessing each decision and move so take your time. Be aware, as not everyone you think has your best interest in mind. Don't be afraid to back peddle a little and ask for help from someone solid. Want a 2 card Tatot reading? Email me at hygeias.healing@hotmail.com after you send $10 payment to PayPal link to receive your Reiki intuitive message. https://paypal.me/MelissaOuimette #pickyourbattles #egoincheck #5ofswords #knightofwands #swords #confidence #clarity #becareful #beaware #whatothersthinkofyouisnoneofyourbusiness #tarot
There was a time I would have skipped the morning walk for lots of reasons🤷‍♀️, especially yesterday because it was raining cats and dogs outside and my socks would be soaked if I did! But you know what they are just excuses…. Lies I allowed myself to believe. 🤦‍♀️ . I’ve really been working on shifting my mindset 💆‍♀️ and knowing that I am worth it and so I’m committed to getting some form of movement at least 6 days a week. 🙅🏼‍♀️ . Recently I started walking in town 🏃🏼‍♀️instead of on the treadmill at home….in the basement….where no one can see me. 👁 I’m so over letting other people’s opinion define me. So even when it’s raining🌧….. Scratch that…. ESPECIALLY when it’s raining ☔️ I’m going to get out there and do me, because I am worth it and sister, so are you! 👊 . To say I am thankful is an understatement. 🙏🏻Thankful that I said yes to a line of natural products that have completely changed my belief in myself, my self worth, and my families health and time freedom. Find the courage and decide that you are going to take the time to work on yourself. You owe that to yourself! 🙌🏻
✨✨✨✨ ~ •~ ~ •~ ~ •~ ~ •~ ~ •~ ~ •~ ~ •~ ~ •~ ~ •~ #TRUETHAT 👆🏻 .... and because I’m about NO-EXCUSES period, my Gym Training Session is #abouttogodown 🏃🏻‍♀️💪🏼 💦 —————————————————— I went to sleep later than usual, at 11:30 PM, and now getting up at 4:30 AM ....that’s 5 hours of sleep 😥, but anyways is ALL about RESULTS or EXCUSES & I’m choosing RESULTS every single day! ✨✨ ~ •~ ~ •~ ~ •~ ~ •~ ~ •~ ~ •~ ~ •~ ~ •~ ~ •~ . #donmiguelruiz #whatothersthinkofyouisnoneofyourbusiness #the4agreements #veganlife #healthybodymindandsoul #trainingtime #fitchick #fitlife #macros #eatyourmacros #weightraining #healthylifestyle #fitnessandhealth #gymaddict #healthybodymindandsoul #badasslifestyle #addictedtogettingbetter #healthybodyhealthmind #gymlife #healthylife #runnergirl #themagicpillisexercise #fitnessmotivation #badassery #vegansofig #mentaltoughness
I remember feeling insecure and self conscious. I remember asking myself whether or not I was good enough. I remember comparing myself to other people. I also remember deciding I didn't want to waste my time. So I decided that I was -and always will be- the best version of me. As should you. Sleep on it if you need to, but I think you might love it. 👆🏾🔥💜 #LevelUp #LitItUp #LiveItUp #MakeMondayYourBitch #WhatOthersThinkOfYouIsNoneOfYourBusiness #PedraAPedra
👉Stress Tip of the Day: What others think of us is none of our business. Living life on our own terms - NOT meaning narcissistic self-centered terms - for the benefit of ourselves and everyone around us, we make a far greater positive impact on everything we do, say and be! 👉It’s not about having others hear what we have to say…it’s about living completely from that place of authenticity and integrity deep within our soul, with or without verbal expression, and without apology for who we are, what we believe, and how we express our gifts.😊 That is what creates a deep sense of inner peace which in turn eliminates the build up of stress. Or at least the quick alleviation/elimination of it! 😇 #stresstipoftheday #stressrelease #authenticity #integrity #stresstosuccess #stresstosuccessformula #stresscoach #stresscoaching #havingavoice #allenginsberg #inspirationalquotes #gainyourvoice #innerpeace #innerpeace 💫 #whatothersthinkofyouisnoneofyourbusiness #innervoice #drmarilynjoyce #fasthealthlasercoaching #innerguidance
Some people won’t understand you. They won’t understand the decisions you make, why you don’t do certain things, what your financials are like — but that’s okay. Because it’s simple, it ain’t nobody’s business but your own 🖕🏻 #whatothersthinkofyouisnoneofyourbusiness #youdoyougirl #dontworryaboutothers #takecareofyou #feelgoodaboutyourself 💋 #happysaturday #beunapologeticallyyou
THIS IS TRULY THE KEY TO ULTIMATE FREEDOM OF THE MIND and A Life of DELICIOUS SELF-CONFIDENCE! Release the Constraints Placed on You By OTHERS! #BEFREE #freeyourself #whatothersthinkofyouisnoneofyourbusiness #whatothersthinkdontmatter #doyouboo 👈
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