I am the biggest #ambivert
on the face of this planet. In fact I am an ambivert inclined towards introvertism. I know it is difficult to believe but I really am. Addressing people, I can. Delivering lectures, no problem. Public speaking, hell yea! Making a conversation, kill me now!
make me uncomfortable. I find it really difficult making #smalltalks
. And even more difficult breaking the ice with #women
🙈. Take me to a full room, leave me in a corner and I will be happy sitting listening to the conversation. It takes me time to get comfortable and friendly. 6 - 7 meetings, 2 - 3 years or till the end of time it could be any of it! But once I get comfortable then there is no stopping me. Therefore I have always had very few & limited #friends
So even at Inaya's school, it has taken me a graduation from PreNursery to #Nursery
to get included in the Mommies' #Whatsapp
Group 🤷♀️. Woh bhi one kind mommy sensed my struggle and got me included. After that I have been making salam dua with the group admin and others upon encounters. Khair.
Today when I went to Inaya's #school
for this #FruitsDay
event, I could see in her a younger me. Shy, quiet, keeping to herself. And that's when I realized that this #habit
of mine is rubbing onto her. And I tried making her go. Took pictures with her #classmates
. Talked to other mommies. Volunteered for the #wheelbarrow
race while still high on my coffee uffff! Things motherhood makes you do!
I don't mind being me but an honest confession is that it doesn't feel too nice when I realize I don't have girl friends to hangout with. So I would want Inaya to have loads of them because #girlfriendsareforever
Kya karun? Do you relate?
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