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Sha'Meca Latai' Oliver

Unstoppable with God! Loyal Wife. Mother. Empowering Root Coach. Author. TV Host @officially_btbu. Building Women to be healed & successful. Love💕DIY

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Today I’m taking time out to shout out to my Dad, Larry Wynn, “CowBoy” my twin! I don’t know if I got this fire and drive from him or my mom! Lol But, he definitely gets a lot of the credit! Anyone who knows him, knows that he hustles hard. He’s a man who works and doesn’t look for a handouts. He can commune with the best of the best and will keep himself educated and put you to the test. Lol ( I sound like him. He’s always rhyming) 😆 Rain or shine, he shows up and shows out. No excuses! He creates businesses and he allows opportunities for others to be employed and grow, too! Quick thinker and smooth on his feet! He invests nothing but the best in Himself. He serves others daily and has no shame in his game. Wow! I get a lot from him 😍 - It’s easy to say what a man didn’t do, but it’s even greater to honor him for what he has done. - I’ve watched my dad up close and from a distance and overall this man is a really cool dude. I just really want to say, I appreciate and love my dad! #dad #iloveyou #father #superman #daddy #daddysgirl #blessing #honoringmydad #shout #cowboy #tribute #whatiseeinyou #whatyoumeantome #buildingthebestyou
This message is not for the weak or faint! Only for those who are willing to #hustlehard #BossUp #Grind #GetOffTheCouch #RunTheRace #TiredOfGettingBy #BuildingTheBestYou #DoBetter #ManUp #Evolve #GetUp #Win
Good Morning! Every morning is precious. Enjoy the moments #preciousmoments #mondaymotivation #livingmybestlife #sweetbaby #babywraps #cutebabies
Do you remember growing up and you and your cousins/siblings used to fight over who gets the front seat? Or, do you remember waiting to grow up and so you can do grown folk things and hang out with your friends whenever you wanted? 😆I’m cracking up because here I am, #Grown and I have no option but to sit in the back seat to take care of my baby AND on top of that My everyday kickin’-it buddies are 2, 5 and 7 years old. Lol 😆 Mannn....growing up is something else. 😆 Life reminds you to enjoy every moment you can and don’t rush anything! Because even though growing up is a beautiful things, it still accountability and extra responsibility. #BuildingTheBestYou #growingup #mefirst #bingo #parenting #motherhood #siblings #mommychronicles
He held his sister’s hand and went to sleep. He is already by her side making sure she feels loved and safe. Love these moments. Both of my boys are crazy over their little sister. They are always gently touching her little ears, eyes, nose and always trying to hold her. When they talk to her, they start speaking “baby talk, trying to make her smile and laugh. It is super adorable. Being a person who loves building the best in others, I’m surely loving how they are already building a great bond with their baby sister. #mommymoments #preciousmoments #happysaturday #mommy #bigbrothers #blessed #sosweet #siblings #babycare #infantcare #motherhood #brotherandsister #mybigboy #nightnight #beftime #amotherslove #raisingboys #raisingkids #parenting
Hey Friends! At times, when you are in great expectation for things to change in your life, sometimes it feels like you’re faced with the hardest challenges; don’t give up! Let me share a word of encouragement to keep your faith activated. #FaithFriday Make sure you join me on FB Live through out the week to get Empowering messages that are changing lives. We are doing this together! #BuildingTheBestYou #letswintogether #MotivationalMonday #HUMPday #encouragement #morivation #message #mompreneur #winning #empoweringwomen #empowerment #rootcoach #shamecalatai #btbu @officially_btbu
Those moments when you can pause from doing what you love (dreams, engagements & daily goals) and can continue to do what you love is powerful. Nourishing my children is my mommy power! Whether it’s spiritual or natural nourishment, it’s truly a blessing to be able to strengthen them and help them to grow. These breastfeeding moments are reminders to make sure I always take moments to build up what God has blessed me with. That I must always cultivate the greatness that resides within them with love and patience. And, to give the best of me that God has poured out to me. - A good thing to remember: After giving so much of yourself to the world, don’t forget to nourish your home. It’s one of the greatest thing you can ever do! - #breastfeading #mommypower #superpower #nourshing #buildingthebestyou #postpartum #rootcoach #humpday #motherhood #mommymoments #purpose #preciousmoments #speaker #mompreneur #entrepreneur #mommies #mothers #parenting
Oh how super cute & precious our little one is! She’s 1 Month Today! ❤️ She’s teaching me new things already. She’s allowing mommy to get a little more sleep than her older siblings & her sweetness reminds confirms that love has no limits. ☺️#preciousmoments #1month #babygirl #ourdaughter #supercute #love #peace #sweetness #growingup
My daughter @sairity_dream always comes up with creative looks. She loves her chocolate skin, her #kinkyhair and being absolutely herself. Some days she says she just wants to be as dainty as a princess & other days she wants to just be “XI” #Herself Today she confidently steered away from her cute, fashionista style and rocked a #bboy look. I believe she can rock anything. And this morning, during my FB Live, she rocked an encouraging message. She told the viewers that it doesn’t matter if people try to knock you down, you must get back up! Like mommy, like daughter, right! - As she sat beside me as I delivered today’s HUMP Day message, I was smiling on the inside because I saw how hard she was smiling on the outside. She was so happy to sit next time & have a piece of the pie. I believe whole heartily that as parents, we must cultivate the gifts in our children & while we are encouraging others, we must not delay in encouraging our offspring. At 7 yrs olds, I’m so proud of the little lady she is and I’m already rejoicing over the woman she will become. #Humpday #wednesdaywisdom #purpose #gifts #mompreneur #win #fight #believeyoucan #ourchildren #meandmymini #beyourself #bboy #style #encouragement #empowerment #parenting #girlcode #blackgirlmagic
Today's Affirmation: Tell every problem, setback, hurt & disappointment "I'm still standing." Sometimes you have to remind yourself that though things/people tried to destroy me, it didn't work & why? Because, you're Still Standing. You’re stronger, more powerful than you think or feel. Glory to God, You're Still Standing. GIVE GOD A PRAISE! #stronger #survivor #relentless #motivation #faithforward #movingforward #encouragement #mondaymotivation #affirmation #believeyoucan #buildingthebestyou #dontgiveup #stillstanding #entrepreneur #mompreneur
These moments are super precious. Being a mover and a shaker and having to be still is not always easy for me. I am willing to chill out, but I literally have to pray and ask God to show me how to be still, in being still. I guess it’s just something in my DNA that keeps me fired up for the next move. #buildingthebestyou But, who would really like to miss out on moments like these, to gaze at the beauty of the miracle that God created in us?! - #Yes , we have miracles right in front of us. And, when we take moments to pause from everything else, we can actually experience our blessings and remember them. - She’s just right. She’s perfect. She’s the calm in the midst of all the noise. The sweet smell behind her ears and warmth that brings joyful tears. Our home is blessed. She’s irresistible from the crown of her head, to her adorable button nose, to the softness of belly all the way down to her wiggly toes; she’s precious! Every moment is adored! Heaven collided with earth & and our miracle was born. ...from a mothers eyes #motherhood #enjoyingthecalmness #preciousmoments #ourbabygirl #blessed #infant #baby #precious #cutebabies
We are ready for Autumn! The weather has favored us & our kids are excited! We laughed until our stomach’s hurt and celebrated each other with leaves that fell like rain! I felt like a kid again & it felt good! I had to lay down my mommy hat and dismiss my rules of everything being in order & just enjoy the breaking of this new season! It’s time to welcome change! I feel great things coming! #seasons #fall #falltime #autumn #fun #leaves #thanksgiving #familytime #specialmoments #enjoyingnature #nature #theolivers #mommy #mommymoments #dancingintheleaves #welcome #kidsatplay
Do you remember being a kid & having to create things that was due the night before school? I remember my mom making me things & doing my homework 🤦🏾‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️ (probably because I watched too much tv) #ijs 😆 Now, I’m doing the same thing for my daughter. She wanted to make a costume for her Fall Festival Party at school today. She wanted me to buy a costume but, I wasn’t buying another costume because we had already bought two costumes for other engagements. So, Here I am, while she is sleeping 💤 , making her a costume from her great ideas! 😄😆 Well, I enjoyed it and she loved it! #costume #angelwings #diy #schoolproject #paperplates #creativity #minime #schoolproject #school #mydaughter
People: Why you taking a nap? Me: God has me covered. Shhh, no more questions ... I’m trying to sleep 😴 (peace that passes all understanding Philippians 4) #ImWinningInMyStorm 🙌 @williemoorejrlive Thanks for this 😍 #Philippians4 #prayabouteverything #notscared #peace #storm #winning #staycalm #naptime #williemoorejr #buildingthebestyou #believeyoucan #hispromises #prayingmother #praying #encouragement #motivation #winningseason #believe #believewomen #dontgiveup
Loving these moments! While the baby was crying, my big girl @sairity_dream came in to rescue her little sister by giving her a gentle rock in her bassinet and singing to her, “Go to sleep my sweety you Little angel, You Can do all things through Christ who gives you strength.” Super sweet to my ears that she would make up her own song for her sister 😍 And, it worked! ☺️❤️ Love my girls! #supersweet #preciousmome #sisters #singbaby #mommymoments #newborn #sweetness #bigsisterlittlesister #memories #happysunday
Not only have we been celebrating the birth of our baby girl, we have also celebrated our 8th Anniversary. Who would have ever known (during the time as a single woman), that when I decided to release myself from what I wanted, to have everything God desires of me, that He would blessed me with everything I needed and more! - I prayed for this man and I didn’t even know anything about him. I didn’t pray that he would make me happy; I prayed that whomever he was, that he was just right for God. That God would heal his heart if it was broken and that God would help him financially, mentally, spiritually & emotionally. Not for my happiness but for God’s glory to shine through him. At that time, I didn’t realize what I was doing. I didn’t realize my prayers and action was aligning me with what God had already breathed in me! I was becoming whole and God was still molding and shaping my husband for me. He was adding better pieces to my puzzle. Wow! - 8 years and we have definitely been on a fast pace learning, building and growing together, at the speed of Light. Happy Anniversary Baby @wesleyolivermd Cheers to more #LightYears & love #supernatural favor & #overflow #HappyAnniversary #8years #blessed #loved #marriage #thetwoofus #fatherofmychildren #husband #meanttobe #fleshofmyflesh #bloodofmyblood
Can’t believe it’s been two weeks already! We’ve waited to see her beauty. We were ready to share her name that was confirmed from God’s breath. How precious she is. For two weeks we’ve been smelling her toes, kissing her cheeks, admiring her beauty and holding her close. Today, I’m Introducing to you our beautiful baby girl, YaPheniya Rose! Thank you again for all your prayers, words of encouragement and blessings. 😍😊#newborn #preciousmoments #newmom #infant #baby #babygirl #rose #blessed #blessing #preciousone #intercessor #purpose #2weeksold #ourbabygirl #sheshere #beauty #daddydomlittlegirl
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