From the moment he was born 12 years, 11 months and 8 days ago, my amazing @rockbehl
took ownership of my heart. From then on, his happiness and wellbeing have been the centre of anything @goldiebehl
and I ever did. And so, when the Big C reared its ugly head, our biggest dilemma was what and how we were going to tell him.
As much as we wanted to protect him, we knew it was important to tell him the full facts. We’ve always been open and honest with him and this time it wasn’t going to be different. He took the news so maturely… and instantly became a source of strength and positivity for me. In some situations now, he even reverses roles and takes on being the parent, reminding me of things I need to do!
I believe that it’s imperative to keep kids involved in a situation like this. They are a lot more resilient than we give them credit for. It’s important to spend time with them and include them, rather than make them wait on the side-lines, not being told yet instinctively knowing everything. In our effort to protect them from the pain and realities of life, we might end up doing the opposite.
I’m spending time with Ranveer right now, while he’s on summer vacation. His madness and shenanigans help me #SwitchOnTheSunshine
. And today, we derive strength from each other #OneDayAtATime
In the words of my favourite author Isabel Allende, “We don't even know how strong we are until we are forced to bring that hidden strength forward. In times of tragedy, of war, of necessity, people do amazing things. The human capacity for survival and renewal is awesome.”
The outpouring of love I’ve received in the last few days has been so overwhelming… and I’m especially grateful to those of you who shared stories of your experiences in dealing with cancer, whether it was your own or of loved ones. Your stories have given me an extra dosage of strength and courage, and more importantly, the knowledge that I’m not alone.
Each day comes with its own challenges and victories and so for now, I’m taking this #OneDayAtATime
. The only thing I’m trying to be consistent about is maintaining a positive outlook... literally #SwitchOnTheSunshine
- it’s my way of dealing with this. Sharing my journey is also part of this process... I can only hope it reminds you that all is not lost and that someone, somewhere understands what you’re going through. 🤞🌞
Thank you @tomoarakawa
for making this a chic transition from long to short!
Sometimes, when you least expect it, life throws you a curveball. I have recently been diagnosed with a high grade cancer that has metastised, which we frankly did not see coming. A niggling pain led to some tests, which led to this unexpected diagnosis. My family and close friends have rallied around me, providing the best support system that anyone can ask for. I am very blessed and thankful for each of them.
There is no better way to tackle this, than to take swift and immediate action. And so, as advised by my doctors, I am currently undergoing a course of treatment in New York. We remain optimistic and I am determined to fight every step of the way. What has helped has been the immense outpouring of love and support I’ve received over the past few days, for which I am very grateful.
I’m taking this battle head on, knowing I have the strength of my family and friends behind me.
They say you learn something new every day, and for me, one of the biggest learnings this year has been the power of social media. I’ve come to understand that social media is what you make of it, and what I’ve made is a wonderful connection with people from all across the globe. I’ve also had the opportunity to build an engaging community of booklovers.
, I'd like to thank all of you, for allowing me to connect with you, for sharing your thoughts with me, for giving these platforms meaning and for adding value to my life.
From just about reaching his knees to towering over him in my heels..... it's the circle of life! Now it's my turn to parent him... ❤ #HappyFathersDay
is getting into the new month with a gripping thriller by @robertdugoni
's 'In The Clearing'. Have heard so much about it and I'm thrilled to start reading this one Looking forward to hearing your thoughts on it in the #SBCBookDiscussion